Aunt Peg’s Final Word, A Friend’s Rememberance & Pictures
LadieZNight writer, talented painter & my friend, Denise LaFrance, emails me-
Dear Cindi,
Devastating news about the sudden loss of our beloved Star and friend, the Legendary Juliet Anderson.(“Aunt Peg”), I was wondering if you’d consider publishing this letter she wrote me with her REVISED biography?
I think, being the perfectionist she was, she’d like the final cut to be available for people to read.
I shall add some photos of us taken last June as well as those of her 3 cats-whom she loved dearly.
Monday January 11th in the morning, Juliet Carr Aka screen name Juliet Anderson…aka “Aunt Peg” Porn Legend was discovered by her friend and neighbor deceased- in her bed. She appeared to be asleep. She suffered for a long time with Crohns Disease.
Denise LaFrance & Juliet Anderson June 2009
When I’d gone to see her last June, she’d shown me a bottle of Tincture of Opium which she’d been taking to control the chronic diarrhea that was symptomatic of Crohns. This medicine kept the symptoms at bay and allowed her to be able to leave the house.
Poor Juliet, but do you think she complained for one moment? No. She was upbeat and fun and funny and charming and very hospitable…a lovely, sexy, intelligent, WISE and sincere woman with multitudes of life experience in an action-packed Life that broke that horrid rumor I once heard from a dork that “Porn people are unilateral thinkers”
What a crock.
Think again.
She and MANY OTHERS in the Industry are anything BUT “unilateral thinkers”.
She loved Life and her gorgeous cats; one of whom is the oldest living of its breed in the world.
Juliet sent this to me. Now I share it with you.
It is her final word…who she really was…
Painting of Juliet Anderson by Denise LaFrance
REVISED Autobiography
I was born in Los Angeles, CA in the days before smog and freeways. My father was a renowned jazz trumpet player for the famous Pinkey Tomlin Orchestra (which was famous for the tune “The Object of My Affection”), and my mom was an aspiring actress (but became a wonderful wife and mother). I have one sibling, a younger sister. It was said that I emerged from the womb ready to perform, but severe illnesses during my childhood and adolescence kept me in bed and the hospital instead of on stage and in films. They were only recently identified as Crohn’s Disease, manic-depression and chemical sensitivity.
1956 I graduated from Burbank High School with straight A’s. The following year I worked as an information operator for the telephone company to make money to go to college.
1957-60 I attended the University of California at Long Beach full time, majoring in art while working 30 hours a week at an art and engineering store. This left me little time for a social life. I did find time, however, to orchestrate the losing of my virginity and enjoying numerous lovers.
1960-62 I moved to Hayama, a fishing village in Japan, joining an American lover who was stationed there in the US Navy. I totally immersed myself in the culture and became fluent in the language. I studied Asian art history and the literature of Japan at Jochi University in Tokyo. I also taught conversational English in Hayama and Tokyo. The relationship became my one and only marriage. It was a short but deeply loving and intensely passionate relationship. My former husband and I are still friends.
1963-65 I was a secretary for a film producer who made “nudie” films in Miami, FL. I appeared in a black and white sexploitation film in which I played a clothed police sergeant. The other jobs I had in Miami were for Avis-Rent-a-Car, a cocktail waitress, a fashion model and a receptionist for the home offices of Burger King.
1965 I lived in Mexico City where I taught English at IBM and explored the country.
1966 I traveled through Europe alone (shocking in those days for a respectable woman).
1967-68 I lived in Athens, Greece where I again taught English privately. I also studied Greek art and history at the University, participated in underwater expeditions and was a photo journalist for several Greek publications. I also had the most powerful and transformative love affair of my life during this time.
1969-70 I stayed one year in Italy and the next in Spain
1971-78 I lived in Finland where I was a top ranking radio program producer for the Finnish Broadcasting Company, making programs in English about Finland that were aired all over the world. I worked both in front of and behind the mike, responsible for initiating the topics and completing them in the studio. I also edited Finnish/English translations, was a photo-journalist for the magazine “Look At Finland”, a researcher for the Finnish Tourist Board and taught English to adults and children.
1978 I moved to the San Francisco Bay Area, initially planning on making documentary films, but instead was discovered at age 39 by the famous maker of X-rated films, Alex d’Renzy
and went on to become one of the most famous actresses in the “golden era of x-rated” films. I appeared in over 70 films, loops and videos and created “Aunt Peg” – a unique persona exemplifying the lusty, intelligent, self-assured older woman who genuinely loves sex. I also worked behind the camera, wrote for or was the featured layout/story in numerous magazines and newspapers, appeared on radio and TV, had my own mail order business, a casting agency and a fantasy phone-sex service, etc. Most gratifying for me, however, were my stage shows in which I combined sex and comedy and took to theaters all across the country. Nina Hartley was my discovery and was introduced to the public in the video “Educating Nina” (1984) which I produced and directed. It was a huge undertaking with a strong story, talented actors and superb production values. However, this gem was a financial and emotional disaster for me. As the first woman producer of X-rated films, the men who ran that industry were intimidated by me and retaliated by never releasing “Educating Nina”. Devastated, I quit the adult entertainment industry.
1985-90 I moved to a small town in the Sierra Foothills, managed a bed and breakfast, studied the healing arts, opened a massage therapy office and eventually bought a home in the pines. In 1987 I also created the unique and popular “Tender Loving Touch….touch as THE play…not as foreplay”.
1991 I moved back to the San Francisco Bay Area and contributed to the books The New Sexual Healers: Women of the Light: and The Red Thread of Passion and established my bodywork business.
Juliet Anderson AKA “Aunt Peg” was the biggest star of the Golden Era of X-rated Films (late 70s-early 80s). I was in my early 40s when I entered that arena which was unheard of in those days. I continue to be known and appreciated for my work in films.
In 1994 I was presented with the Adult Video News “Hall of Fame Award”, in 1996 I was inducted into the “Erotic Legends Hall of Fame”, in 1999 I received the X-rated Critics Organization Hall of Fame Award, in 2001 I was presented with the “Lifetime Achievement Actress Award” by the Free Speech Coalition for my contribution to the Adult Entertainment Industry, including my discovery of Nina Hartley and in 2007 I received an honorary Doctor of the Arts by The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality.
1999 I made a ground-breaking educational DVD “Ageless Desire….great sex for couples over 50” featuring 3 real-life couples. It is still selling very well.
I live in Berkeley, CA with my 4 cats, (am) a relationship counselor, a massage therapist and a Tender Loving Touch practitioner.
2009 My plans include making 2 more DVDs: Volume II of “Ageless Desire” and “Tender Loving Touch”.
Juliets beloved Pets. The Black one top left is the oldest cat of that breed in the world.
(Denise continues) My final memories of Juliet are from the day Michael Jackson passed away, in June of 2009, when she and I spent the entire afternoon together at her apartment and later that evening, of she and I sitting at a restaurant for a very special pasta dinner where, together, we sang the song “Sentimental Journey”. Let it be known that Juliet Anderson had a magnificent singing voice. We’d planned on meeting again in July of 2010…(sigh)
Love,
Denise
PS-that blue sign I sent you a picture of…it is a sign Juliet kept in a highly visible spot by her computer on her desk.






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This old jazz song:(Which was often heard on TV’s “Our Gang” Little Rascals Show)~
“The Object Of My Affection” is a song by the famous Pinky Tomlin Orchestra, is some of the music Juliet Anderson’s beloved late Father played.
Please listen to this song and think of a very young young Juliet singing & dancing there on stage along with the Orchestra as she often did.
She was dearly nicknamed by the Orchestra as “Tomlin’s-Sweetheart-Good-Luck-Charm”
Click on this link to listen to this tune.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qnigZHDxACA
This was part of Juliet’s era and just one facet of her incredible Life History.
Here’s the lyrics to “The Object Of my Affection” if anyone cares to sing along.
Juliet’s father played trumpet for this orchestra.
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The Object Of my Affection~Pinky Tomlin Orchestra
_________________________________________________
The object of my affection
can change my complexion
from white to rosy red
Anytime she holds my hand,and tells me that she’s mine.
There are many girls who can thrill me
and some who can fill me
with dreams of happiness
But I know I’ll never rest until she says she’s mine
I’m not afraid she’ll ever leave me
Because she’s not the kind who’d be unfair
But instead I trust her implicitly
(She can go where she wants and go do what she wants. I don’t care)
The object of my affection can change my complexion
from white to rosy red
Anytime she holds my hand and tells me that she’s mine
There are many girls who can thrill me and some who can fill me
with dreams of happiness
But I know I’ll never rest until she says she’s mine
I’m not afraid she’ll leave me
Because she’s not the kind who’d be unfair
But instead I trust her implicitly
(She can go where she wants and go do what she wants. I don’t care)
The object of my affection can change my complexion
from white to rosy red
Anytime she holds my hand and tells me that she’s mine.
Well, what can you say when one of our real-lifelegends passes?
Sadness creeps into our industry from those of us who were fortunate enough to have known her. Juliet was a light shining upon us all as if to show us more clearly how it should be done and at the same time without losing our dignity and innocence. Aunt Peg was one of my earliest lustables. She will remain alive on celuloid, video and in our memories;all fading all the time. Her light however is forever and even longer than that.
Denise as always wonderful words for another of your cherished friends.
I have known you now but a few years, and each stories you relate makes me understand the life of those in the porn industry as very complex and highly intelligent.
Thank-you for those lessons. And may the memories of those who meant a lot to you continue to live in your life and spirit.
It is an honour to be your friend.
d
This is a lady that FULLY lived life on her own terms. Ahead of her time. Awesome bio and an awesome lady.
What style. What grace. What warmth. What a gal.
What beautiful responses in honor of Juliet.
Thank you friends.
You all recognize Juliet’s loveliness when you encountered and witnessed it because each and every one of you, I know, are lovely yourselves.
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Thanks for the lovely memories of Juliet. Who’ll look after those lovely cats?
Juliet was a friend. She will be greatly missed. She is in a better place with her beloved cat, Snuggles.
Denise, Juliet told me you spent time together and she showed me your photo.
Take care
Kevin thanks for letting me know. This warms my heart.
I am hoping those 2 songs and the Jpeg of Juliet’s portrait makes it into the hands of her Family and the arrangers of her service so they can play the songs in her honor…”Object of My Affection by the band her Dad played trumpet for:The Pinky Tomlin Orchestra…and Sentimental Journey-the song she and I sang together at the dinner table at that restaurant in Berkely…mixed emotions here now. Happy for the nice memories but sad nonetheless cause that’s all I’ve got now….all WE have got. She had and has many friendsand admirers. I’m but one of– I’m sure– copious amounts.
Alan, the same thought crossed my mind.The CATS. I am HOPING her sister will take care of the cats.
THe black rare cat is VERY old and fragile.
I hope whoever takes them takes them all together as separating them would upset them.
Seems to me there was a 4th one…also striped…unless Snuggles was this cat and also passed on.
As yet, I don’t know anything about her funeral other than having heard tht Carol Queen was supposedly taking charge of it.
I imagine friends in the Industry will hold their own special memorial service(s) as well.
All I know is I’m damned sad right now.
Time–it waits for no one and is fleeting and this just reminds me how we all need to just be kind to one another and never WAIT to say and show out love…let our love be KNOWN and moreso, FELT.
That said,let me take this opportunity now to send love to you all.
Sincerely,feeling particularly raw and human emotions tonight-
Denise the painter in Toronto.
For those of you who wish to do something nice in Juliet’s honor, it would be very thoughtful and appropriate if you weer able to donate a little bit of money to a local cat shelter in her name and memory.
She loved cats more than anything.
Thank you.
Denise
Here is a posting from the Center for Sex & Culture. It is located in San Francisco.
http://www.sexandculture.org/index.php
Juliet Anderson (a.k.a. Aunt Peg) Memorial Gathering
Tuesday, 1/26; doors at 6, we’ll begin the formal memorial at 7
No charge, but donations will be gratefully accepted
At CSC, 1519 Mission, San Francisco, CA, 94103-2512
http://www.mapquest .com/maps? city=San+ Francisco& state=CA& address=1519+ Mission+St& zipcode=94103- 2512&country= US&latitude= 37.774022& longitude= -122.417472& geocode=ADDRESS
The world has just lost a sex goddess: Juliet Anderson, who entered the adult industry during its Golden Age, died in her sleep this week. We will gather to remember her friendship, her wonderful energy, her elegant sexual presence, and her impact on our lives. Please RSVP to carol@sexandculture .org — and please indicate whether you knew Juliet personally or were a fan. We *absolutely* want to include fans if space permits! And if it doesn’t, we promise to do another memorial focused on fans in the *very* near future. Please pass this information on as appropriate, especially to people who may have known Juliet.Here is a posting from the Center for Sex & Culture. It is located in San Francisco.
http://www.sexandculture.org/index.php
The family will not be at the above event. There is talk about a spring time event when other friends will be around. Currently, the talk about the spring event being for family and close friends. It was mentioned that Juliet’s ashes would be scattered.
Tonight is Juliet’s memorial.
Please, bow your head in prayer for her…even if you’re not religious…because maybeit is true…what people say about what happens…about God n stuff…just in case, let’s all send some prayers for peace and love and joy for the world in honor of this wonderful friend’s memory.
That’s all Juliet wanted. Love and compassion, peace and understanding…for us all.
Thank you
Denise
JULIET ANDERSON’s CATS are STILL up for ADOPTION.
If anyone in the BAY area wants to adopt them, i know this is the nicest thing a person coud possibly do as a final “Tip-Of-he_-Hat” to our darling Juliet “Aunt Peg” Anderson.
Also, Journalist and also good friend of the late Juliet Anderson has been asking me if any close personal friends and co-stars would kindly get in touch with him to share some fond memories with him regarding what Juliet meant to them as a Human Being.
It is Graham’s intent to have an article published in the SF Post so if you’d be so kind as to contact him, I’d be so appreciative.
His email is:
grahamhill007@sbcglobal.net
Thank you.
Denise
Sorry-I forgot to mention in previous post NAME of journalist asking ((CLOSE)) friends / Co-workers of Juliet “Aunt Peg” Anderson’s to contact him so he can interview them for an article he is writing for the SF Post on the woman BEHIND the porn…the REAL HER.
His name is GRAHAM HILL…
grahamhill007@sbcglobal.net
Tel: (818)257-4041
I remember how magnetic her personality seemed to be, when she blazed across the screen back during the ‘Golden Era of Adult Cinema’; the first time I saw Juliet ‘Aunt Peg’ Anderson. But, there was an authentic person there and in touch with herself & the joy of life. That is what she communicated on screen. I only have become aware of this sad development a month after it’s occurrence, but the sadness at her loss is not diminished.
It is selfish to wish she were still here, so I have some growing to do. But, I am thankful that I had the privilege of being one of her fans, during her life-time. Also, to have experienced the healthy joy of life, that she communicated about sex, in her screen appearances ! Bless you Juliet ‘Aunt Peg’ Anderson, for all the goodness that you
did during your life-time.
MK
HERE is a special TREAT for all the friends & Fans of JULIET “Aunt Peg” Anderson…
It’s a PODCAST interview of Juliet talking about her Tender Loving Touch program…
Oh it’s like she’s still WITH us…oh she IS. In spirit.
(I have now goosebumps-which SHE used to call “orga-bumps”)
Here–have a listen^^
http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/225-sex-tantra-and-kama-sutra/episodes/31989-full-body-bliss-tender-loving-touch-play/play
xo
Denise
Thanks Denise for sharing this info with all of us. Even though I’ve worked with Juliet and hung out with her I didn’t know most of those things about her life. It’s ironic that it takes someone’s death to more fully know about them. What a wonderful bio.
Love you, J
Hello Veronica,
I am glad you enjoyed this exposition of some details of our dear Juliet’s Life.
It’s true, that, all too often, the mark of one’s death often is the revelation of the big details of who that person was.
Oh to be able to turn back the hands of time…just for an hour to administer a loving embrace.
But you know, we all can learn from this fact that, as you say, post humus is usually the big reveal of the details of person’s essence…we can embrace this knowledge and just be that much more kid and loving and appreciative and aware of those who are still around us in this form of life.
We can share our selves more effectively and not hold back that yearning to know one another…we can now delve and love and learn from one another and let our love and appreciation and friendship be KNOWN.
And so with that, allow me please to tell you dear Veronica (J) that I do love you and all my wonderful friends…especially those I’ve had the honor of knowing in The Porn Industry.
It’s so simple…
People just need, want and deserve
To be understood,
To be loved
To be heard
T be included
To be told and shown that they matter
and To love.
Any one or sect who tries to prevent people from loving other people or to try to make other people feel like they are unworthy, stupid or useless are EVIL and I do not care under what veil of disguise they try to deliver their message of shunning, excluding, orstracizing, judging, trivializing and dismissing:
(Religeon, Government, Media, Hoity~toity self righteousness)—>
Hate is Hate.
And…hate is WRONG.
Juliet was human alright and real and raw and ready and fun and sweet and never hurt a fly.
I can say this about all the people I have met in the Industry.
I’ve never once been ipped off or hurt by one single person I have encountered in the porn indsutry.
What I have encountered that IS unique is a uniform sensation of love, acceptance, encouragement and friendship.
What is most naked about the people in Porn is their REALNESS.
There’s no bullshitting about these People.
They are very upfront, raw and sincere in what they share and once a person has EARNED a person in Porn’s trust, what is resulting is a warm, hospitable level of caring I can only equate to the feeling of Family I always wanted.
Unconditional love, encouragement and upfrontedness.
That is RARE.
That is The Heart & Soul of the People of PORN.
Aunt Peg/Juliet will always be a favorite. It hurts to learn that her production talents were hobbled by jealous males in the industry, particularly when women running their own productions is so much more common place. Juliet, much like Bettie Paige, should have reaped far greater rewards for her efforts than the system in place at the time allowed. I have a soft spot for all the performers of the golden age. You helped me fulfill countless fantasies and be a better partner.
Much love to all.
The first porn film I had ever seen, kept me happy for weeks! A true star!
Just like “motor”, one of my first porno movies to see was “Aunt Peg Goes To Hollywood” and this was at the Pussycat Theatre in Hollywood. Peg was funny in the movie, but man she could get off wildy. It was nice to enjoy her film.
And, Denise, I wanted to play catchup. I am moving quickly on lots of ventures and I wanted to see how you were doing. I’d like connect with you on facebook, and if you can do that my facebook is under Dennis Niermann. I’ve missed our conversations.
Dennis Niermann
Cell 216.375.2696
Hello, took me time to read all the comments, but I really enjoyed the article. It proved to be very helpful to me and I am quite sure to all the commenters here! It’s always nice when you can not only be informed, but also entertained! Consequently: thanks a lot and please please go on with your good work. I’ll surely come back and look for new articles! Best regards
Thank you for your encouragement Die Uhren!
I lusted after this woman for so long, not really knowing she was such a loving and caring spiritual person. I always knew there was something special about her, beside that famous haircut.