Archive for the ‘Q&A/Advice columns’ Category

"For me….. live is where it is at.  Camshows, members board, chats, personal messages."

A reader wrote in and asked what to look for before you purchase a membership to a adult star site, and we have the perfect person to give him an answer! Webmistress Extraordinaire Vicky Vette!

So I was asked what to look out for in a site before becoming a member.  In this day and age where tons of porn is available online for free, it is annoying to me to still see sites out there that basically rip off the consumer – sites which go out of their way to get every last dollar out of the customer even if it means he won't come back for more later.  Nothing gives me greater pleasure that when someone who was a member of my site six months ago, comes back and writes 'Vicky… I went away and tried several other sites while I was gone, but I missed your site so much, (they didn’t update, didn’t answer mail) that I had to come back' .  It is validation that the experience was worth it to the consumer.  Soooo, if I was joining a website and laying out about $24.95 I would want to make sure of the following Top 5 things to look for (in no particular order):
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“There are more AA groups going on than Lindsey Lohan sightings”

Cindi: After reading about Georgina’s struggle with alcoholism. I wondered how she was going with it these days. So  I dared to ask her how she was doing with her drinking and what advice she could give to others. Here’s what she said ( so brilliantly as always)

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"I also couldn't believe that I was getting paid for masturbating"

by Diamond Jackson

I am frequently asked the question. DJ, how did you get started in the porn industry? This is for those of you that want to be enlightened. A few years ago, I was working as a mainstream model, actress, television executive producer, and tv personality all rolled up into one. I knew this was what I wanted to do since I had been an entertainer from the age of 5 and graduating from college also gave me some of the knowledge that would be helpful in making my dreams come true.
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“I haven’t gone to the padded room yet!” 

Teagan & Josh are a couple in love and will share the writing responsibility. They would love to answer your relationship questions. If anyone knows how to sustain a loving relationship, it is two people who work in the adult industry and are parents to three children!

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“Why would a fat person choose to be fat?”

by Toni Tails

Dear Toni, I have a good question. Why aren’t you interested in changing your lifestyle? Aren’t you afraid that being fat could kill you? * – anonymous

Your question is, indeed, a good one. Why would a fat person choose to be fat? I can only speak from my own experience as well as having done some quick research, but I think I can give a decent answer.

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